Having been exclusively in the retail weddding business for several years prior to going on the internet with Dyeable Shoe Company I decided to devote a page on the Dyebale Shoe Company's web site for the Bride-To-Be with planning and proper etiquette, I welcome your comments. - Elliott Fishbein.
I suggest that the future bride and groom announce their engagement to their parents first. If at all possible do it in person and together.
After you have told your parents then announce it to your close friends.
The future bride and groom can announce their engagement in the local newspaper where they grew up and where they are living at the present time.
As soon as possible it is nice for the two sets of parents to become acquainted. The grooms parents should be the ones to set up the meeting, but in todays day and age that does not necessarily have to be. The bride and groom can also set up a meeting of the parents at a restaurant or if they are already living together (which today is very common) at their apartment.
Set the wedding date.
Check on the different places that are available for your wedding and reception, and make a selection.
By setting a budget you will then be able to determine the number of guests you would like to invite.
Be in touch with different officiants and then make a selection as to who you would like to conduct the ceremony.
The next thing you should do in the beginning stage of your planning is to choose your maid of honor, best man, bridesmaids, and ushers.
With the above accomplished you are now ready to start shopping for your wedding gown.
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6 to 9 Months before the Wedding
Check out caterers ask for references and then book your choice. .If at all possible find out if you can sample some of the various dishes you might be interested in serving your guests.
Register at various stores for wedding gifts
Now is the time to order your wedding gown and check the store policy. Also set dates for fittings.
Order your headpiece, jewelry, lingerie, and shoes. If you would like to look at the shoe store click here OnLine Catalog and Store
Try to select your bridesmaid's gowns from the store where you are purchasing your wedding gown.
Visit several photographers where the wedding is taking place. Check the quality of their work look for indoor as well as out door pictures, ask for references. Form my experiene depending on the size of the city a good photographer should be booked almost a year in advance if at all possible.
Now is the time to choose a florist, ask for references. You should ask for references from all of the companies that will be providing services for your wedding.
It's time to think and decide on the musicians or disc jockeys.
You should start thinking about and planning your honeymoon.
Remember all of the above does not have to be done in one day, but in the 6 to 9 months time frame.
Always ask for references.
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4 to 6 Months before the Wedding
Now is the time to order your wedding invitations. Ask if they are giving discounts especially if it is at the same store you are buying your gown. We use to give 30% off to our gown buyers. Outside customers 20% if a bride was ordering her invitations, responds, thank you cards, programs, and menus.
If you are using a calligrapher now is the time. Don't forget to ask for references and check the different type styles being offered.
Check out the cake bakers if your caterer is not making the cake. Before you order your cake make sure to have a taste test and ask for references.
Limousines should be booked at this time.
Look into finding a hair dresser and makeup. Also you should try her/him out if she/he is new to you.
Take some time to look for accomodations for your guests. If your booking several rooms and your wedding or reception is taking place their you should ask for a discount.
Go over your guest list and finalize it.
Now is the time to book your honeymoon flight and accomodations.
This is the time to select a place for your rehearsal dinner.
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2 to 4 Months before the Wedding
This is the time to contact the town's city clerk to find out about the requirements for a marriage license.
If the bridal shop where you are purchasing your wedding gown also rents tuxedos we suggest you select the style and advise the groom to send his male participants to order their tuxedos.
Select your wedding favors and place the order.
It's time to order your wedding cake.
You should meet with your wedding officiant to discuss the options you have for the ceremony. If you want to have loved ones perform readings.
Visit with your musician or disc jockey to select the music for your ceremony and reception.
Shop for gifts for all the wedding party attendants.
The bride and groom should order their wedding bands.
Make hotel or other accommodations for your wedding night.
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4 to 8 Weeks before the Wedding
Mail your invitations six to eight weeks prior to the wedding.
Make your final decision on the menu with the caterer.
Meet with hairdresser and make up artist with your headpiece.
Decide if you are going to change your name and contact the city or town clerk to gather the necessary information.
Send out your wedding announcements to the local newspapers.
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2 to 4 Weeks before the Wedding
Make up a seating chart for your reception.
Double check with all of the vendors so as to make sure everything is in place.
Schedule your final fitting with all of your accessories.
If you are writing your own vows now is the time to complete them.
Make your final appointment with your hairdresser for a haircut and whatever else.
Send your seating cards to calligrapher, if you are using one, to fill in guest's names and table numbers.
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1 Week before the Wedding
Make arrangements to pick up your wedding gown.
Organize all wedding fees in envelopes and decide who will handle them.
Make arrangements with one of your attendants to deliver necessary items to the ceremony and reception.
Contact caterer with your final head count.
It's time to pack for your honeymoon.
If you have asked for references and worked with reliable vendors.
No matter if it rains or shines your wedding day will be beautiful.
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